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Is it because we are constantly comparing ourselves to a tiny female archetype, in order to complement the prevailing tall and muscular male ideal?Or have we bought the idea that we need to be smaller in order to be loved?
Yet, when I think about why I thought tall guys were more attractive, I found that it boiled down to one thing: my own insecurities. While I didn’t exactly have an eating disorder, I can’t recall a time during my adolescence when I wasn’t on some sort of diet.
”It was a year after college, and the person asking me that was a guy I had just started casually dating.
He actually was a couple inches taller than me, but the question caught me off guard. probably not,” I awkwardly admitted, embarrassed that I had gone with the two-inch wedges. ” She laughed at me and said, “Oh, I promise, your priorities are going to change.” “Not about that,” I replied. When Mark asked me to his dance months later, I not-so-politely declined—“Oh, Mark, you know we are just friends”—and instead accepted a later invitation from his significantly taller but significantly less charming friend.
Hang out in any girl’s college dorm room for long enough, and you know: Height matters in dating.
“I just want to be smaller, like you,” I remember one college friend—one exceptionally tall and exceptionally gorgeous college friend—telling me as I slid on my heels for that night’s outing.
Prioritizing height on my checklist seemed like an easy way to avoid my issue with my weight. I came to realize that this idea of the right man fixing my insecurities permeated my dating criteria.
When I dreamed of my future romances, all I thought about was how he’d make me feel.Slowly, this extreme standard of height waned, but I still felt awkward if he was near as tall as I was.After all, shouldn’t the right man make me feel feminine and small?But as Julia Hogan eloquently points out, sometimes we really don’t know who’s good for us until we meet him.I met Jason a year before Tinder existed, but upon reading Isaac Huss’ article about how dating apps leave us restless for the perfect option, I cringe to think that if I had seen him on Tinder, I probably would have swiped left after seeing his height.On top of that, if you do mention it, she might assume you’re insecure or uncomfortable with your body. But if you ignore the difference, she’ll think you’re a confident guy who’s secure in himself…and she’ll appreciate that you don’t need her “approval.” Here’s the truth: Taller women have eyes. To a woman, this screams “desperate.” If you feel the need to “prove” yourself to her because of your height, she’ll notice. So here’s a pro tip: Take her to a venue where the height difference is barely noticeable. If you’re standing next to each other and staring at a stage, she’ll be too distracted by the music to notice your height. When I was dating this shorter guy, there really WAS something different about him…