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How does this concept of "sex begins in the kitchen" work? We all know that doesn't mean getting creative with the utensils and appliances, but what does a lady mean when she says romance begins elsewhere than the bedroom?
These may be a challenge things for men to actually understand, but that shouldn't stop us trying. A husband with potential may be the need for just about every woman's heart. Ideally, however, the wife who is the desire of a man's heart doesn't require him to alter, but supports him as he tries.
So the picture we're developing is of a husband who's dedicated to learning and achieving better, with a wife who's committed to extending grace, never requiring change. The above things in tension provide the marriage a substance of mutual submission.
The husband submits himself to God, and to his wife, in mastering for everyone her. The wife submits herself to God, and to her husband, by permitting him to develop without forcing matters.
Both are necessary to submit. Marriage is about mutual submission.
But let us get back to the subject of sex - and its imminence emerging from the kitchen.
THE KITCHEN AS AN ALLEGORY Of affection
Love can start in the kitchen or perhaps in the laundry or out in the yard, simply with the act and services information; the husband plies his skill and uses his humble strength to work diligently.
It might be an old-fashioned value, but women love working men; certainly not blue-collar men, but the willingness assertive to lead his family in cheerfully doing the tasks of the house.
Tasks like ironing, dish washing, cooking, vacuuming, etc, may once happen to be the domain from the woman. But now forget about. The problem is much more about the willingness from the husband to pitch in. His heart is to help.
A lady knows she's loved when her husband seeks to impress her while he loves her. This is an act of faith for that husband, because as he does nice things for his wife she's romanced. He must be genuine, committed, sincere.